Day 9 in the ICU and I have observed that Dad has become very well adapted to the procedures and daily routine. I was there this morning when the docs were doing their rounds and they were very pleased with Dad's progress! They were examining the x-rays of Dad's chest and told us he was almost in a perfect condition to have the tube out today. His chest looks clear, he is breathing well (iniatiating breaths himself, with as little help from the ventilator as possible) and his strength continues to amaze them.
I asked Dad myself if he would feel confident about getting the tube out today. After some arm waving and head nodding I deciphered "Maybe today but would perfer tomorrow just to be sure". The doctors obviously agreed as the tube is still in but tomorrow is looking like D-Day!1
The nurse said today that any average person would be out to it or at least docile with the amount of sedatives they are giving Dad but he is not only awake, he is also still very alert. He had nurse Kate again today - i think she might be his favourite so far because he keeps asking me if I can organise to buy her some flowers to thank her for being such a good nurse!
Dad was also asking about the patients in the bed next to him. He was worried/ sad yesterday that the old lady in the bed beside him was going to die. I reassured him that she is in the best possible place and that she has probably lived a long and satisfying life. Bryan might not be able to talk but he still has that caring nature shining through, putting others before himself.
He was also quite determined today to tell his docotor that he had a new idea for a ventilator tube. That has been his biggest disturbance for the past 8 days and obviously is making his 'always active' mind tick over. The doc actually said to Dad that they are working on new designs and when he is better they can discuss Bryan's idea. Perhaps a future career in the health innovation area...
Uncle Derek was back today, along with uncle Mark, Buck and Pam, Grant and Carmel. Dad loves seeing a familiar face, I can tell by his expression that he is thinking "wow - what are you doing here?" To see him smiling (or attempting to smile) is the most uplifting thing for me. It makes it a whole lot easier to accept what has happened and stay positive.
Perhaps the most exciting thing I have experienced since the accident...Dad spelt out to me around lunch time today "ELECTRIC" then pointed to his legs. I asked him if he meant that he felt some sort of pulse or tingle run through his leg and he nodded his head. For me this seems like a good sign - some sort of nerve action. I don't want to get my hopes up but at the same time I am very excited to get him into rehab and get started on his mobility.
I left the hospital reasonably early this afternoon so I don't have much more to report. Going back to uni tomorrow so I have handed the blog-writing job over to Mum until the weekend. She might have more to talk about tomorrow.
Finally, I want to personally thank every single person who has showed their support for Dad and the rest of the family. You cannot begin to understand how much it has helped me get through this last week. I know now that I can go back to uni without having to worry as much because there are so many people out there who are doing so much for us!! So thank you all again, very much!!
Goodnight
xoxo
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
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Hi guys,
ReplyDeleteJust reading today's blog - it was great to read such a happy blog. We're all sitting here talking about nurse Kate - we're thinking she's a looker??!! We know you like those pretty girls Bryan, chin up and we'll have lots of drinks for you at the fed again this Friday, it's the least we can do :)
Love from the pretty girls at STM (you know who we are!)
I've been sitting at the keyboard for sometime now, trying to comprehend what has just happened to such a great rider and such a great guy. I don’t really know what to say, the eloquence to express my shock and condolences eludes me. It is good to hear that Bryan is getting better and reaching milestones so quickly (getting the tube out will be a great one). The best of luck, Bryan with recovery and I hope everything keeps moving in a positive direction. Thank you very much to rest of the Flemming family for keeping us all updated on how things are going. I’m sure everyone reading appreciates the time and effort for setting up the blog and posting updates.
ReplyDeleteBest of luck again Bryan, and if you attack this with the usual Flyan tenacity nothing will stop you.
“Racing is life everything else is just waiting.” Steve McQueen.
Hi Bryan,
ReplyDeleteIt was fantastic to see you yesterday,you look great.As I said to you I'm glad I'm not paying your electricity bill.You certainly have lots of machines on the go.I see the TV and DVD player have found a cosy spot in your area.
Not sure about you and Buck tho,when he walked in your heart rate went up and they chased him out.I know you and Buck are great mates but is their something Julie and I should know about (ha ha)
I wondered which nurse was Kate,but when a nurse came over to say goodbye as it was the end of her shift and you put both arms to give her a hug my question had been answered.Good to see your still keeping an eye on the pretty girls.
To Julie,Rebecca and Erin I admire your strength.Love to you all
Pam xxxx
Bryan continues to amaze me with his courage & strength.
ReplyDeleteOver the past week i have watched as the look in Bryan's eyes has changed as he has progressed. For the first couple of days he was clearly terrified, this then changed to sheer devistation as Bryan became more aware of his condition. As i look at him now, he is beginning to look like his old self. He is commited to turning the next corner and focusing on the light at the end of the tunnel. He is more focused and positive than ever (if that's possible!)
Bryan still has many jumps and bumps to ride on the track to recovery, and with all of his family & friends behind him i'm sure he will once again wheel stand past the checkered flag to a great win.
Breaking News
Mum just rang through very good news;
"Bryan is breathing by himself"
(That dreaded ventilator pipe is out)
It will be very hard breathing for a start but he said he was ready for the challenge (sign language last night)
Mark's visit to Bryan had a very positive effect. I could see Bryan's eyes were much brighter with hope.
Bryan reckons Julie and I were a little ordinary at charades after doing it with Mark (so thanks Mark!)
Yesterday was Buck and Grant's first time into ICU- and we should not have let them go in together!!
Bryan's femal nurse is a very good looking 32 year old.
Grants first comment to her was "I didn't think ICU nurses were allowed to have a tattoo"
She replied "Actually i've got 5"
Buck joins in "Wonder where the other four are?"
The nurse replies "Wouldn't you like to know"
Bucks reply: "Yes".
They were then asking about Bryan's heart rate monitor- "Does it fluctuate much?"
The nurse answered "At times it races"
Buck & Grant- "no need to worry too much about that, as the fluctuation will depend on how SEXY the nurse is!"
Bryan in even higher spirits afer their visit, which was fantastic to see.
Bryan is so fortunate to have so many good friends in his life and if you would like to visit him i'm sure it would do him a world of good. A fresh face in amongst the usual suspects is always nice!
I think it would be ideal for Bryan to have 2-3 visitors most days to aid in his recovery, but i know with the busy lives we all lead this may not always be possible. The weekends are very popular with visitors, so if you have some spare time during the week i know he would love to see you.
If in doubt call Julie on her mobile, or don't hesitate to contact myself on 5448 8209.
Thanks to everyone for your support during this time. Your thoughts and prayers are very much appreciated.
Derek, Robyn, Alyssa, Brad, Ashleigh & Mel Flemming
Hi Julie,Brian,Rebecca and Erin,
ReplyDeleteIt is pleasing to hear of the positive news about Brian and we hope everything goes well when the tube is removed. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Stage 2AG said to say Hello from all of them.
Love
Annette, Nyles and Hannah